Love is pure, sublime feeling that gives you blissful healing, but most of
us, have that wrong meaning. Love can refine your soul and give you the very
pleasant moment, that can make your life wonderful for achieving anything, and this feeling is not just for couple of months or years, if
you want, can continue with this forever. But people are always impatience, selfish and conditional with their loved
one, and trying to busy for proving to the world,
that how wonderful couples we are! whereas real love is disappear.
However, a good relation can never established based on rude,
critical, judgemental behavior those are suspiciously comparing each other.
In fact through this, we are creating bitter feeling, against one another.
From another point, some relation can break drastically, when people are expecting return to the same way, obviously it can not be a good example to make a perfect relation. But I believe through the good changes in your mind, can create a great impact not only in your relation, but your life.
So, we must love and care our dearest without any expectation of return, and this is one of the greatest way to keep our love alive. So if you really want that person or those people in your life, do not make a deal between both, instead do for them what they need and love without condition.
To another point, love is full of mental contentment for making our life blessed and happiest not just for continuous pain. It is not like that I need you to make me happy or want you to fulfill my all desire.
Love is not bound to obey the rules to keep you into the prison. Real love always belong to the understanding mind. Sometimes it might require sacrifice and compromise to make someone free, though we cannot take this word easily.
But if you really love someone, then you must do this, otherwise you are not in love, you want to make your heart to fill up with your egoistic desire.
Yes this is tough I agree, as a human being to make a zero expectation in our mind. But it is possible at least to have some control in your mind, that can make something better in your relation.
Yet, if that is not work then we have choice to stay or leave away to have our own satisfaction. Because, after doing all, if you are still hurting to handle that situation, then there will be no other way to protect that relation for going to the next level.
But if this is real, then there is no need to knot anyone to stay, because all your understanding, love and compromise definitely make them supposed to be with you the same. Otherwise it was never for you, and would not be ever, though the real one will be with you forever, so free both of yourselves for your endless unconditional love.
Jessica Gbeholds
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